In the design draft pictured below, you can see a number of events in a list. Users reviewing this list want to be able to add events to other lists: a watchlist or send list -- or both. They also want to be able to reverse their actions, so items no longer show up on the list they added events to in the first place.
What is the best design pattern to use to toggle these actions?
FYI: this is not a form, so it is important that these actions can be performed in real time, without pressing 'Submit' first.