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You would have to ask your users to find out if they find it creepy and untoward to have strangers chat with them. One way would be that a person has to opt in to be part of a chat (meaning that the person will not be pinged/IMed if he has not selected to be active in the chatrooms (as opposed to simply being on the site). There are many options but ...
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